what is Sex?

At a curious mind my 8 years old daughter asked us What is sex ? She been hearing this word from TV shows, and on some music they been listening to. This is the 1st time she asked us this. As parents we did not know what to say. She kinda answer her own question which she is referring to gender(male & female). It is now a question brought to our attention at to what age we have to discuss this thing to her. She is a very smart girl. I don't want her to find this things from her friends. I know it will become one lesson she will learn in school. Is this a topic that she prefer to hear from me or from her dad or maybe from both. When this time come I hope we can explain it to her with a sense that she will understand.

Being a parent is not easy. You can't predict what question(s) that your kids will asks. Kids now are very smart in their own way.

Day with The family

I can't remember when was the last time I spend time with just my family alone. For almost 2 years there is always something going on. Our weekend always booked. Working Monday through Friday sometimes working overtime, coming in early and living late. My husband keep complaining but as he always said whatever make me happy he will do it.

Today 3 day weekend because tomorrow is 4th of July. I did not do any commitment to any parties but to spend time with just my family. We went to Colt State park. An open field near the ocean. A lot of people go there. Places where do people go fishing, have their parties ore even a wedding. Very nice place.

We went to the park brought some foods with us. Let the girls fly their kites. Went to the dock see people fishing, see if they have any luck. Walk along the sea shore. Wow it was amazing spending a day without rushing ourselves. I love it.

This makes me realize even how much time i spent with my family I still need to spend more time with just them. Don't get me wrong i love my friends but my family will come first.

I'm Back

It's Friday July 2nd 2010, setting in front of my computer thinking of doing something until it came up my mind that it has been a while I'm not doing any blog. Even visiting my blog. Having family, kids plus working full time really miss up our mind. I don't consider myself busy maybe a little bit but not as much as how busy other peoples are. Anyway, just thinking of posting something just to update this blog. This may not be interesting right now but once my kids grow up and read all what i posted here about our family, make them realized what we been through. Fun time we did as a family. I may no money but keep trying to do something for the kids.

Just an update, my kids are now both full time in school. Leona my oldest will be in 3rd grade and Angel the younger one will be in 1st grade. My girls are growing so fast. They are both smart kids in their own way. I am still working in a pharmacy same as my hubby. We are thankful and so blessed to have jobs. With this economy we have to e glad, a lot of people lost their jobs. My mom still living with us. We are still sending my younger sister to college. this will be her last year hopefully 2011 she will graduate and we can't wait for it. A little bit extra for our pockets.

I make more friends. Party here and there, as my co-workers calls me I am a party girl. Hey what i can do i have many friends.

We'll i can't really promise anything but try to post something from here and there.

Have a safe 4th of July everyone.