For most of us we are so lucky growing up with our parents. There maybe few that you may not live with them because parents are devorce or whatever but at least anytime you need them they are their, you have a communication.
My husband is not fortunate unlike us. Him and his dad been away from each other when he was 5 years old. The last time he saw him was when his dad told him, he is going to pick him up and they both going to California. but that did not happened. Poor Roger had all his stuff all ready but his dad never came. He kept on waiting and waiting but no dad came to pick him up. Never heard anything from him explaining what happen. Until he only heard that his real dad gave his mom and his step dad a money to use to adopt him. Roger grow up with all this question in mind if his dad loved him or not. He never have any contact, no communication with his real dad even with any side of that family.
Until 10 years ago when I just got here in US. We accidentally bumped to one of his Aunt his dads sister. Roger was so happy. She even been invited to our wedding. And this Aunt sent a picture of us to his brother Rogers Dad. But this Aunt passed away after a couple months and Roger was hoping to see his father @ the funeral but he did not came. So there's another diappointment. But through some relative Roger finally found any information where really his real dad and they start communicating with each other.
They been communication for 10 years but never had a chance to meet again until day the last day of 2010 his dad passes away. It was sad but in a positive way at least they have a chance to talked to each other finding out what happen to those years they been away from each other. Explained what was really happen.
And finally yesterday 15th of January Roger and his dad reunited again. Reunited but not in a way they wanted to be. We got his dads ashes and according to my youngest daughter Angel we will keep the ashes and someday when Rogers time to go, then we can put the ashes with him. So then they will be together all the time.
As my husband told me i have to be thankful that I have my parents. No matter how pain in the ass they are, but at least I still have them.
Sunday, January 16, 2011
Father and son reunited
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