My ideal backyard

Growing in Philippines where life is tough.  Since i was a little girl I always dream to have a very nice house w/ big yard where my kids can play with and I can have an area I can have my garden.    I love gardening.  But living in this country that weather keeps changing it is hard to have flowers that blooms all year round.  What i can only do is put a vey nice accent to my backyard like putting a gazebo, wishing well and maybe aa garden arbor or wooden arbors or any kind of arbor, as long as it makes my whole house looks presentable.  By doing this I have to start courting my husband now so that he will buy me one.  What do you think?