My Kids Playmate

Every parent raises his or her kids in different way. To me I am trying hard for my kids to make it sure that they clean up after their mess. Put their dirty clothes in the hamper.

Today I stayed home so I did cleaned up their room. It was spotless but when their friend’s mother called if her daughter can come over to my house and play with my kids. I can’t say no because my girls wanting to have a playmate. But guess what my spotless house after a half hour was turn into a pigsty. This kid really has no clue what a clean house is.

I can shoot my self by letting this kid come over to my house. I already know from the fact that every time she comes over this is what always happens. In her house for her mothers concept of a clean house is, as long as there is still a spot where you can step your foot then it is clean. You can’t find any places in the house with no toys not to mention trash that a little bit of vacuum will do. What can I say there are people are very lazy and I don’t want my kids to be like that because I am not.

After their friend left my kids end up cleaning all the mess they did. They are not happy about it but I already told them that if they don’t cleaned up I would show them why mommy’s way is cleaning. Which is throwing all the toys in the trash that they were terrified to hear it. I might be too strict but I am doing this for there own good for their future.

Hope it will not live any negative impression on me from my kids and from you guys. What you think am I too much? Do I need to low lie about discipline my kids?